i could walk away

today, right now, i think i could walk away.

i was watching the Season 1 & 2 recap of Transparent (which made me like & appreciate the show a lot more than when i watched it in "real time" -- the children all seem so whiny and entitled). the characters are all lost, grasping at relationships that aren't quite right, trying to find themselves, there was a scene between Maura and his former wife, and it hit me: they still cared about each other, they were still friends, and that was OK.

maybe Andy & I could do that?
or:
it's OK to have loved someone, to care for them, to be their friend, but no longer their spouse (for whatever reason(s))